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Proverbs 23:29-35

Who are the people who are always crying the blues? Who do you know who reeks of self-pity? Who keeps getting beat up for no reason at all? Whose eyes are bleary and bloodshot? It’s those who spend the night with a bottle, for whom drinking is serious business. Don’t judge wine by its label, or its bouquet, or its full-bodied flavor. Judge it rather by the hangover it leaves you with— the splitting headache, the queasy stomach. Do you really prefer seeing double, with your speech all slurred, Reeling and seasick, drunk as a sailor? “They hit me,” you’ll say, “but it didn’t hurt; they beat on me, but I didn’t feel a thing. When I’m sober enough to manage it, bring me another drink!”

Eventually I came to Proverbs 23 – Wow did this guy know the effects of drinking too much, and the lure of returning to the bottle. So many nights (and days) in my lost state I experienced this contradiction of life.

Whining about my life but returning to the source of my sorry existence. Thank the Lord for His saving of this poor fool.

Proverbs 31:4-7

“Leaders can’t afford to make fools of themselves, gulping wine and swilling beer, Lest, hung over, they don’t know right from wrong, and the people who depend on them are hurt. Use wine and beer only as sedatives, to kill the pain and dull the ache Of the terminally ill, for whom life is a living death.

Another verse I glossed over when reading as it refers to excess of consumption, and the abuse of the bottle.

Summary

I was delivered from the enslavement from alcohol and drug abuse when I bent the knee in repentance and belief in the Messiah. I am thankful for His mercy in my life. I have found other battles in my life that are overwhelming at times

self control

Both this verse and the passage in Proverbs 23 speak of self control. The lack of self control in drink or food leads to multiple life problems.
These verses describe the lack of self control in the areas of food and drink. What other areas of my life exhibit the lack of self control. Self pity, anger, fear? And yet the believer has a capacity in the Lord, a strength available for self control, that is, the fruit of the Spirit.
Some believers may have to struggle with self control issues with food and drink their entire life.
My heart goes out to them.

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  • Proverbs 4 23Thoughts on the topic of children from the book of wisdom

    My wife and I have 5 beautiful children, whom we love and cherish. Each of them are out of the house now, but not out of our heart.

    We understand better now than ever the wisdom the following passages supply to parents, and my regret is in not paying better attention to the details of the precepts supplied below.

    Oh – we sought to obey the following verses, but I have to admit, that discipline was administered sometimes without the child’s best interest considered.

    Proverbs 13:24
    Whoever spares the rod hates his son,
    but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.
    Proverbs 19:18
    Discipline your son, for there is hope;
    do not set your heart on putting him to death.

    All those parents out there who have sometimes disciplined thier child without seeking thier child’s benefit, but only a release of frustration, please raise your hand. I admit my weakness in this.

    And yet the Lord has been very kind to this family.

    When reading a passage such as above, keep in mind the one below.

    Colossians 3:21

    Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.

    A very wise lady, who was raising a teenager on her own, being abandoned by her husband, once told me a great secret on raising kids, specifically teens.

    Are you ready? Talk to them and with them. That’s it! If you can maintain communication with your child from the preteen years through the teenage years, the battle is half done.

    Teenagers

    Sometimes when a teenager is fearing the discipline, it creates a wall that blocks discussions.

    Do teenagers need discipline? Yes. I am not advocating a free for all.

    What I am advocating is communication. Talk. Chatting. Chewing the fat. About the weather, drugs, the price of rice in China, or why the sky is blue. If your child knows he or she can talk to you, the chances are better (not guaranteed) that they will weather the storm of the teenage years.

    Proverbs 22:6
    Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

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    Notice that the verse does not say – Train up a child in the life you dream of. (Ahem – every child is not a sports superstar!)

    Nor does it say, Train up a child in the way you are living. In other words, passive training. Kids are sponges, and they will soak up the bad habits the parents exhibit easier than the few good habits practiced.
    Train up a child in the way he should go. The only way a parent will know that is through understanding the Word & Will of God and prayer. Oh and one more thing. The parent needs to understand the child. Which means back to the talking, chatting, discussing, chewing the fat – oh never mind – I think you get the idea.

    Proverbs 22:15
    Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
    Proverbs 29:15
    The rod and reproof give wisdom,
    but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.

    These passages do not quantify the amount of the rod of correction. Each child is different and a wise parent will know that. Correction should be done as much as possible, privately, since shaming of the child is not necessarily to his or her benefit. Of course if the child has done something against a sibling, the discipline may need to be observed, but the wise parent will understand each of the children’s character to best decide how to accomplish that.

    Finally, when raising children, seek to make thier paths easy. The world will chew them up and spit them out on a daily basis. As a parent, follow after God, and walk in integrity.

    Your children will be blessed.

    Proverbs 20:7
    The righteous who walks in his integrity—
    blessed are his children after him!

    Drop me a line to discuss. Love hearing from you.


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  • Proverbs 4 23

    Thoughts on the topic of religion from the book of wisdom

    Religion

    I have been listening to the book of Proverbs (The Message translation!) on my commute to work lately and it’s been real good. I listen to one chapter a morning, usually 3-4 times over, if the commute lasts that long.

    Occasionally, as I am listening to the Proverbs, some thoughts may come to mind and I will post. At times, the verses jump out at me, and the following two verses certainly did that.
    To think that the Bible says such about “religion” is kinda shocking. Both for the fella who has never considered the Book, and for those who may have lived by it for years.
    Both may be shocked to consider that proper living is more important to God the Father than religious activities.
    Say it ain’t so Carl!!!
    Proverbs 21:3 is pretty dang clear
    Proverbs 21:3
    Clean living before God and justice with our neighbors mean far more to God than religious performance.

    Do I hear Micah 6:7-8 echoing in the background? Check it out. (A little self study never hurt anyone!)

    Proverbs 21:27
    Religious performance by the wicked stinks;
    it’s even worse when they use it to get ahead.
    How twisted, when you think of the original intent of the sacrificial system that Solomon was likely referring to in this passage. Sacrifice was to give up something, not to get something!
    How often have you attended a church meeting and out of nowhere, a brother will approach you about some business opportunity, or try to sell you something, like life insurance.
    Never took a liking to that, even when I thought of the building as somewhat holier than other buildings. Now to bring up business opportunities in place of fellowship in the Son seems to grind me all types of wrong.
    Nevertheless, I hope you have a great day and enjoy the time you have with your loved ones. Hope to visit with you soon!

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