
Thoughts on the topic of money from the book of wisdom.
In our first post on the topic of money, I had an extended introduction on the intangible assets such as instruction, knowledge, understanding and wisdom that is compared with money in the proverbs, along with a short discussion on each of these intangible assets. I also tried to define the difference between worth and value in the first post. If there is interest in this topic, please see Proverbial Thoughts on Money / Instruction.
Otherwise, our topic in this post is money in relation to relationships.
Worth Less than Relationships
Proverbs 15:17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fattened ox and hatred with it.
Proverbs 17:1 Better is a dry morsel with quiet than a house full of feasting with strife.
Hatred and strife in the home. How terrible it is when the very place to be reserved for acceptance and love is turned into a arena of strife and hatred.
Now I need to confess that in this study, there is not a direct connection with money in these verses, other than the implication that a fattened calf and feasting implies wealth. To be sure, there may be times of celebration for the poor that bring the elements of the fattened calf / feasting into their lives, but my assumption for the purpose of this study is that these verses speak of the wealthy.
Nevertheless, when wealth comes into a home, division, hatred, conflict and strife may also come with the wealth. That is the inevitable result when the desire of things becomes a priority over those we are to love.
As wealth enters a family, as believers, we need to remember the priorities we are called to. We are not called to love gold with all our hearts, minds and souls. (If your Bible says that, throw it out – a definite misprint!)
We are called to love God, and by extension, the people he has brought into our lives. If you find strife in your home, one of the possible (probable) causes may be the priority of gold over God in the home.
Proverbs 15:27 Whoever is greedy for unjust gain troubles his own household, but he who hates bribes will live.
Although this passage speaks of unjust gain, a similar truth may be extrapolated from it in that greed and a healthy house are apposed to one another. I have heard of men who have worked day and night for decades, seeking more and more funds (security) for his family, all in an honest manner, and at the end, the family breaks apart.
Greed and people don’t mix! Kinda like oil and water!
Story time
Years ago I met a family that seemed to consider people more important that possessions, and the more I hung around with these folks, the more I realized they had picked the better path. Now I want to be honest in this story, for the family I met was my future wife’s parents, and I was going to be connected to them for the rest of my life, for that girl had me!
But the practice this family had of an open door and the coffee always on, a kitchen table with “strangers” around it, and my future mother in laws refried rigatonies – don’t get me started – was an experience I shall not soon forget. They were a relatively poor family financially, and I will admit there were some struggles, but I never headed to that home to visit with any hesitation.
Pop would put his wrench down to chat with me, and sometimes allow me to go on a work visit with him to fix a furnace. I tried to help with insulating a small addition once, and out of that exercise, acquired the name “dummy” from him. Loved it when he called me that, for he never meant it in a pejorative manner. The very odd time he would call me by my given name, I knew I was sideways with the man, but he would talk it out with me, and I knew where I stood with him. And he would call me “dummy” again!
I miss him.
Eventually, my mom started baking me blueberry pie every time I came, and sent me off to the store to get some vanilla ice cream. She always had a few pennies put aside to buy some ice cream for my pie.
Sure loved that lady.
So, as a summary of the topics in relation to money that we have considered in the book of Proverbs, we have found that….
Money is worth less than
- instruction
- knowledge
- wisdom
- righteousness
- humility
- relationships
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