
David and Abigail
As many who have followed me for a bit, I have fallen into the Psalms, and I can’t get up! (As if I would want to.) The Psalms are a majestic collection of poetry, of heart felt human experiences that constantly challenge me in my own frail attempt to follow the true King. As many of the Psalms are written by David, my study on the Psalms has spurred me on to looking at the life of David, is the main contributor to this book, and to follow the victories and tragedies of the shepherd King of Israel.
Many times in the narrative, we will see the Lord Jesus, imperfectly, yet a reflection of His spirit in a man with weaknesses.
1 Samuel 25:14-17
14 But one of the young men told Abigail, Nabal’s wife, “Behold, David sent messengers out of the wilderness to greet our master, and he railed at them.
15 Yet the men were very good to us, and we suffered no harm, and we did not miss anything when we were in the fields, as long as we went with them.
16 They were a wall to us both by night and by day, all the while we were with them keeping the sheep.
17 Now therefore know this and consider what you should do, for harm is determined against our master and against all his house, and he is such a worthless man that one cannot speak to him.”
So what is going on in this short passage? The Word, through this young man, recounts what has occurred to a woman named Abigail. It seems to be a repetition of the previous story.
I think there may be a lesson for us in this repitition of the story. Hopefully I will communicate it properly.
A bit of Background
Remember there are three characters in this chapter, and David, one of those characters is spoken of in glowing terms to this lady named Abigail. David, unbeknownst to him in his current rage, is described as protective, caring, giving and supportive of those who needed protection. Protection that has suddenly soured, becoming Nabal’s greatest enemy. And a single solitary young man took it upon himself to speak to Abigail, for it seems Nabal was not an approachable man. This I believe is a message for us all, in that approachability is somehow couched in this passage and may prove to to be a useful consideration for us today.
Let’s consider each of these characters in their approachability.
David
First let’s consider David. Though it was the last passage that we saw him approached with the soldier regarding Nabal, we see he has not reacted well. He blew up and saddled up with swords a clanging. Although not a common reaction for David, at this time in his life, a wise man does not react out of emotion. Does not the Word challenge us to be guided by peace, the very peace of Christ?
Colossians 3:15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.
With that said, I am an emotional fellow, and find this to be a challenge in my life, but as with David in this passage, have flown of the handle in a reaction that has not produced the righteousness of God
James 1:20 for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
Nabal
What can I say about Nabal? I have the sense the only reason anyone approached him was out of duty. It is interesting that when David’s men approached Nabal regarding thier request, the Word states
..they said all this to Nabal in the name of David, and then they waited. – 1 Samuel 25:9
They waited. Of course this may be the common response of a group of men to show respect, yet as I consider Nabal’s general character, it may be that they waited for an emotional explosion, which appears to have happened. Personal defamation of David spewed from Nabal’s mouth, and David’s men received the insults to take back to their chief.
Abigail
And then there is Abigail. Not much is said of her in this passage other than the fact that a young man, of Nabal’s servants (?) approached her and spoke some pretty bad news. The passage doesn’t speak of her interrupting the messenger or of her anger rising, or of her dismissing the information. She, in the silence, seems to be a patient, kind and approachable lady. She was so approachable that the young man felt he had the freedom to speak his mind regarding her husband Nabal, calling him a “worthless man” and one that cannot be spoken to.
Kind of amazing that Abigail had this reputation of openness and approachability. Her non-response regarding her husband in the next passage speaks volumes to her character, for if she had anything against him, this would be the perfect time to enter a whine party!
Approachability. It is all about how we handle our emotions when the worst of news comes to us. Do we think of ourselves only, possibly taking out our disappointment, frustration or anger on the messenger, or do we consider those around us, and especially God, finding ways to express the peace of God to those who need to see Jesus?
Approachability. Would you consider yourself approachable? It seems Jesus was approachable, even to those who would eventually murder Him. He would accept them into His presence no matter.
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