A little while ago, I produced a verse by verse series in Philippians. I really enjoyed that exercise and have been wondering if I should take on another book. Well it turns out that 1 Thessalonians is the victim of my machinations, and hopefully, the thoughts produced by this fantastic book will edify and encourage the reader.

As with Philippians I am going to limit each post to one verse, and hopefully produce a short, succinct read for my friends who follow.

1 Thessalonians 2:11 For you know how, like a father with his children,

Sadly this verse breaks a thought continued in the next verse, but it does provide an opportunity to set up the next post. Let’s consider Paul as he speaks of being “like a father”.

It may be a difficult discussion regarding what a father is, for I realize the disintegration of the nuclear family has been painful and destructive in the last two to three generations. On top of that, the vagaries of life sometimes touches families without warning. Such was my case, for as a young boy, my father was taken from the family by way of a traffic accident.

For myself, becoming a believer before a family man afforded me the opportunity to know the grace of God, and to begin to understand God’s loving care for His children. Although I was a poor reflection of this love to my children, I am thankful for the beautiful children he granted my wife and I.

Now, back to the passage.

I don’t want to beat a dead horse, but this verse directs me again to the primary topic of individual relationships with those in Thessalonica. Paul expressed a deep commitment to the success of individuals within the church, of his desire to see his offspring live in peace with each other, successful and secure in the Lord.

As a father, I do not think of my children as a conglomeration of persons, as a unit to address, or to be thought of. Each is their own person, wonderful in their differences. As a family man I greatly desire for unity within the family, but that desire is not to force any type of uniformity, nor does not reduce the individuality of each. It is very special to see each work together with their siblings to bring about good for the whole. I think this may be a glimpse of what Paul sought for within local congregations, for the honor of the Lord.

Nevertheless, let us consider two aspects of what it means to be a father, at least from Paul’s previous teaching found in verse 9.

1 Thessalonians 2:9 For you remember, brothers, our labor and toil: we worked night and day, that we might not be a burden to any of you, while we proclaimed to you the gospel of God.

To Work Hard

The few memories of my father have left me with a bigger than life image of a man that was in control, that knew his place in life, that loved his wife, and that worked hard, very hard! I wish I knew him better, but the few memories I have are very special to me, and provided some foundation for my own family.

Paul also worked hard, for in a verse before he spoke of his labor and toil, working night and day. To be a father is to provide for his loved ones by sacrificing his time and desires for the sake of his wife and children. Long hours, diligent effort and dying to your own wants is required to be a good and loving father.

To prioritize the family above himself is the way of a father’s life. Paul lived out the life of a father for his children in the faith!

Don’t Take

Another aspect of fathering in relation to the previous verse could be described as “not taking”.

The previous verse where Paul talks of not being a burden to his loved ones makes me think of a father’s place in the life of his children.

As a father, I do not seek to receive from my children. It is not my goal nor desire as a father to find resources I can “tap into” from those I love. They are my responsibility not my resource! They are those I love, not those I look to for gain. This is the attitude that Paul was expressing earlier, and I find it is a fitting reminder of the life of a father.

We shall find in the following verses, Paul speaks as a father that exhorts, encourages and charges his children to walk properly.

In our next post, we shall consider those three characteristics of a good father.

For our verse today, and that we have read up to so far in this letter, Paul has given us two characteristics of the life of a father.

Work Hard.

Don’t Take.

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