
For this series in Philippians, I am going to limit each post to one verse, and hopefully produce a short, succinct read for my friends who follow.
2:26 for he has been longing for you all and has been distressed because you heard that he was ill.
In our last post we found Paul’s thoughts of Epaphroditus, in that he is his brother, his fellow worker, his fellow soldier and the Philippian’s messenger. He praised this believer in front of the Philippians, couldn’t say enough about him. During our last post we spent some time conjecturing how Paul may have perceived the Philippian’s thoughts, how they may be disappointed in Epaphroditus. (See Philippian Bits – 2:25.02)
In this short verse, we find out the thoughts of Epaphroditus himself. This man who has travelled from Philippi with a gift for Paul, and has succumbed to a sickness, become a burden, and is possibly delayed from returning to his home church.
His thoughts? He just wants to be with them. He simply wants to go home. He is longing for his friends in Philippi, hoping for the day when he has enough strength to say goodbye to the Apostle Paul and head home. He has that positive emotional longing that pulls at every thought, distracting him because it interrupts his thinking of other things. His thoughts are mixed though, for he has a negative emotional experience, in that he is distressed over his friends. They know of his illness, and that causes additional grief for Epaphroditus.
What a tension to live under! Stricken in a bed far from your friends, without the convenience of cell phones or instant messages, this believer wants to go home to see his people, because he loves them, AND because he is full of heaviness that they know of his trial.
You know, love is like that. We want to protect those we love from any unnecessary distress, even if it is due to our experience. It is not all about me me me, how much I suffer, or how much I have to go through for someone else. Love is other’s based.
Story time
I have a good friend whose supervisor was unexpectantly fired. During my chat with him, it turned out that his concern wasn’t with the boss and his loss, of his lack of work, the shock of his firing (and it was a shock!), but how it impacted my friends life. He was very angry with the fact that no-one told him of the firing. As I sat and listened to this fellow, I did not consider this reaction similar to how Epaphroditus handled a trial. My friend only considered his own world, his own impact, his own needs!
Wouldn’t it be more appropriate to think of the supervisors family, of his struggles and disappointments, his emotional and financial health?
Let’s remember the Lord’s mercies in our own lives and be a bit more like Epaphroditus, who counted his friends in Philippi more significant than himself, who thought not only of his own interests, but also of the interests of others.
You know, I think there is a verse somewhere in the Bible that encourages us to do so. Be blessed my friends and may the Lord be a blessing to you as you consider others in your day today.
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